Real News. Mirroring… for a bit works, initially. US News. I had learned many, many times over that if a guy was pushing to spend all of his time with me, it was probably because he was trying to fill a void in his own life and, therefore, he was probably not ready for a real long-term relationship. We never know if that is a good idea or if we should hold back and act like we aren't champing at the bit to discover everything that we can about the other person. It also could mean that he's deliberately trying to pace the relationship and slow it down
He has a one year sold son from a previous relationship.
How Much Time You Should Give a Guy to Commit Before You Quit
And for people that are older, there is usually little tolerance for games, they know what they want and are very upfront with it. Once I realized that, I was comfortable to relax and enjoy the huge amount of time that we spend together. At first, I was terrified that we were falling into my same-old pattern once again but as I got to know him better, I realized that he was not using our relationship to fill a void in his heart. I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. I like Janie a lot. What could improve?